The House approved the legislation by a vote of 66-28. On that same day in early April, the State Senate voted 26-5 for a bill mandating that K-12 students use only bathrooms and locker rooms that correspond with the gender on their original birth certificate, rather than their current gender identity. That legislation also limited classroom discussions on gender and sexual orientation, similar to a Florida measure derided by critics as “Don’t Say Gay.” Gov. Kay Ivey, a Republican, signed both measures the following day.īorn and raised in Birmingham, he first came out as gay in 1998. His early teens were filled with taunting and bullying that he described as a “daily gantlet.” He ran away from home.
Before his junior year, looking for a fresh start, he transferred to a different school and did not reveal his sexual identity to classmates or teachers. Rafferty attended the University of Alabama at Birmingham and joined the Marine Corps.
While in the military, he avoided conversations about personal relationships, although he was already in a relationship with the man who would later become his husband. Only after leaving the Marines, just over a decade ago, did he become more open about his sexuality. He spent nine years as an employee of Birmingham AIDS Outreach, working with young people and organizing H.I.V. He ran for the Legislature in 2018, becoming only the second openly gay lawmaker elected in the state. The first, Patricia Todd, held the same Birmingham-area House seat before him. Todd said that she was most proud of the Alabama legislation that she had helped to block - measures she considered harmful to L.G.B.T.Q. Rafferty, too, has spent his term in the Legislature working to prevent new restrictions on gay and transgender young people. He connected constituents with Republican proponents of the measures, hoping to change the lawmakers’ minds by making them more comfortable with gay and transgender people and explaining the burdens they said such legislation would create. He brought medical experts and local organizers who provide support to L.G.B.T.Q. When the legislation came to the floor of the House, Mr. Rafferty appealed to his colleagues on the basis of their conservatism, arguing that they had no business involving themselves in the decisions of parents, doctors and children. “Where’s small government in that?” The Push to Restrict Rights for Young Transgender Peopleīut Mr. Rafferty’s opponents were equally determined. State Representative Wes Allen, one of the creators of the bathroom bill, noted that his legislation had been three years in the making. He described the new transgender restrictions as common-sense protections. “We make decisions in this body all the time to protect children from making decisions that could permanently harm them before they are old enough and have a brain developed enough to fully understand their decisions,” Mr. Allen, a Republican, said before the bill was passed. Governor Ivey invoked God as she swiftly signed the measures. “I believe very strongly that if the Good Lord made you a boy, you are a boy, and if he made you a girl, you are a girl,” she said in a statement. Instead, let us all focus on helping them to properly develop into the adults God intended them to be.” “We should especially protect our children from these radical, life-altering drugs and surgeries when they are at such a vulnerable stage in life. Rafferty wasn’t the only lawmaker trying to stop the legislation - he had allies among his Black Democratic colleagues, especially. “What I said on the floor about it being hard to grow up different here was from my heart because I have experienced that,” he said through tears in an interview. Equally difficult, he said, was “to have state legislators, your leaders sitting there trying to erase you, say that you don’t even really exist.Since coming out, I’ve explored all aspects of my sexuality and never once has my asshole been able to self-lubricate.